Eva Longoria not bitter about Tony Parker split

Eva Longoria isn’t “bitter” about her split with husband Tony Parker.

The Desperate Housewives actress who filed for divorce from the basketball player in November 2010 does not hold a grudge against him and likes to hold on to the positives from their three-year marriage.

“One thing I did learn is you don’t hold on to the bitterness of the loss; you hang on to the beauty of the love,” she said. “Remember all the good things. There was a reason you met someone and a reason why you were together.”

The brunette beauty who separated from Tony amid allegations he cheated on her with Erin Barry, the now ex-wife of his former teammate Brent Barry recently insisted she has no bad feelings towards her former spouse.

“Marriage in my family is really a sacred sacrament,” she said. “It wasn’t something we did frivolously. But, you know, I guess the relationship ran its course, and so many people want me to hate him or want to just destroy him. And I don’t. I wish nothing but the best for him. He’s not a bad person. He just wanted something else.”

Eva who has been married once before to General Hospital star Tyler Christopher would not go into detail about why she and Tony, 28, split.

“There was a reason why we got married. There was a reason why we fell in love,” she said. “There was a reason why we were together seven years . I would never speak publicly about what happened or why we got divorced, because I love him and we still talk. We still are in each other’s life.”